Living Above The Norm

The pursuit of a simple truth by an analytical mind.

Entries Tagged ‘relationship’

Facebook, Fans, Friends, and Family

If I ever want to feel good about myself, all I have to do is log in to Facebook.  Once I’m in, a quick glance to the left and whatever temporal insecurities I may have been facing or whatever loneliness I may have been feeling vanish immediately… After all, I have nearly 700 friends.  Who [...]

Is Experience Really the Best Teacher?

I recently came across a pretty cool site, Someone Once Told Me So.  Every day, give or take, they post a picture of someone holding a quote.  The premise is this, “Someone once told me… [then they fill in the blank]“.  I’ve subscribed to the RSS feed so I don’t have to keep going back [...]

How To Get Connected In Your Local Church

Willow Creek’s founding and senior pastor Bill Hybels once said, “The local church is the hope of the world, and its future rests primarily in the hands of its leaders.” I couldn’t agree more. I believe that idea could be restated this way: the world depends on the participation of the local church [...]

First Week on the Job… What it’s Like Being a Father

By no means do I consider myself an expert.  For all intents and purposes, I’m about as new a rookie Dad as you can find.  But this I do know: things in life are made with purpose.  As I shared when talking about …Life Purpose In 20 Minutes…, anytime that something is made or used [...]

Using Twitter and Facebook to Listen with Your Eyes

There’s a big debate in the Twitter-sphere and Facebook world. It’s essentially the same question in two different vernaculars. “Do I have to follow everyone that follows me?” In short, no you don’t. I do, and some. I’d like to take a moment to tell you why in hopes that [...]

Anything You Can Do I Can Do Better… Incorporating Mentors in Your Everyday Life

In a country full of self-made men and home grown businesses, how is it that some people are at the top of their game – giants in their areas, while others are not? There has to be something unfair about the American dream. Do some people just have what it takes while the rest of us have to live with what we have? Here’s how I develop mentors and relationships to help me develop myself as a leader.

It’s What You Do Differently That Counts

I can think of no better way today for you to live above the norm than for you to take a break, turn off the computer, put the phone on vibrate (or off completely), and go spend some time with your family. I’m going to.
- Take your family to the movies (yes, in the middle [...]

Discover Your Life Purpose in 20 Minutes or Your Money Back

I’ve often heard it said that the two greatest days in a person’s life are 1) the day they are born, and 2) the day they found out why.
Who doesn’t want to know what their purpose in life is?  Authors and publishers have made millions off of people’s insatiable hunger to fill that longing, that [...]

A Little Bird Told Me So… The Twitter Goal

The Twitter Goal – Why I twitter and how I use it purposefully.